initially looking for intelligent conversation,correspondence if anything comes of it then great, if not....nothing ventured nothing gained. have met a couple of people from this site, in real, and the experiences have been wonderful. open and honest, about my expereince ,depth, and expectations.dont know why so many of us subs/slaves list our kinks and fetsihes, its really up to us to fit in with our owners wishes and desires. its not really a tick all the boxes routine..or as a very intelligent lady once told me... its not can i have two macdommes to go please!!! for a real relationship to develop there must be stimulation on so many levels,physical, mental ,intelectual and interest. all these things take time and time given and taken can be the most precious thing that we can give each other. am interested in aspects of force,consensual non consent